Sex, intimacy, and desire discrepancy may be the most common concerns couples bring to me, and they’re also some of the hardest to talk about. By the time a couple reaches me, they’ve often spent years quietly misreading each other’s behavior and feelings. One partner might think, “They must not find me attractive anymore.” The…
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Awakening Desire: Using Pleasure Mapping to Explore Sexual Agency
What is Desire? The World Health Organization defines sexual health as “a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality…Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence. For…



